The Marriage Counseling Blog

For many, the ability of a Couples Counselor to “speak your language” means that it is important to you that finding a counselor with the same basic values and belief system as yourself. Many couples in need of therapy contact numerous counselors before they find the right one to help them fix their relationship. For some couples, though, “speaking their language” is a literal obstacle.

The Language Barrier:

The high growth of immigrants and people with work visas has highlighted the concern for finding a counselor who has the ability to fluently converse in the same language. If you think about how difficult it is to relay simple information to someone who barely speaks your language, imagine how hard it is to communicate deep-seated issues and concerns with that same language barrier. Important information is lost in the translation and little help can be achieved.

The Cultural Gap:

Beyond a simple language barrier, the issue of cultural upbringing is also a key point in seeking out a couples counselor. Speaking the same language does not always mean that your counselor will have an understanding of your culture and its special nuances. Everything from religion to the separation of sexual roles can play vitally important parts in the healing of your relationship, so it is important that you find a counselor who understands. Socio-political background and conservative verses liberal cultures often have to be addressed in counseling.

For many people, finding the right couples counselor means finding a counselor who speaks your language and is familiar with your culture and beliefs.

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