Dr. Frank Gunzburg’s Program for Surviving an Affair
Self-help programs can be a useful adjunct to therapy. I was recently introduced to a unique 7 step program by Dr. Frank Gunzburg that I felt compelled to introduce to readers of The Marriage Counseling Blog.
Dr. Frank Gunzburg is a marriage counselor who has devoted his life to helping couples survive affairs by quickly getting down to the REAL issues that matter.
In his 31 years of experience working in the trenches with couples, he has detected some remarkably consistent patterns that have caused affairs to happen (after all, isn’t it important to know WHY it happened in the first place so you can prevent it from happening again?)
You can start to benefit from his free advice just by signing up on his web page. Here are some of the topics covered:
- How to erase the images out of your mind. (This age-old 3-step technique, which I adapted from the core of cognitive therapy has proven to rescue people who feel shipwrecked from all forms of negative and debilitative negative thinking.)
- How to rebuild your self-confidence, self-respect and self-trust. (Seven means to permanently taking control over the negative waves of thoughts, feelings and imaginations.)
- How to get your spouse to answer any question. (Using this system will encourage your spouse to share the complete details without making them feel trapped and defensive.)
- How to identify why the affair happened. (A step-by-step strategy for opening up your relationship and looking inside with complete honesty.)
- Learn what was missing in the relationship and what you need to do to add it. (Uncover what your primary needs are and more importantly what your spouses needs are.)
- How to motivate your spouse to listen and understand your emotional needs. (Implementing these 10 critical dimensions into your relationship will help to affair-proof your relationship.)
- How to talk about the details of the affair. (There is one reason and one reason only why you should talk about the affair.)
- Discover how to talk to each other. (My 8-step program for developing communication that leads to a happy, healthy relationship after the affair.)
- How to know you can trust your spouse again without being taken for a fool. (Learn the 5 forms of trust and which ones you can give and which ones you can hold back on without harming your relationship.)
Having to face a cheater in your relationship or marriage can be extremely confusing … just getting from one day to the next can be an incredible chore.
Click Here to sign up for Dr. Gunzburg’s 7 Step Course for Surviving Affairs.
Sincerely,
Chris Hartwell, MSW
Webmaster, The Family & Marriage Counseling Directory
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