The Power of Humor in a Marriage
Many experts have noted that when a couple can laugh together and share a genuine sense of humor, they are more likely to move past marital difficulties that often lead to couples counseling. Not only is humor a “shared language,” it can often diffuse the tension during a heated moment.
It’s important to look for a sense of humor in a partner before settling down with that person. Do they get your jokes or are you often met with a confused, icy silence? Do they take offense to your humor? (In that case, it may be the person’s oversensitivity or you may have to work on your delivery!)
Whatever way you look at it, laughter between a couple creates a deep, enjoyable bond. Sharing laughter and enjoying each other’s company is ultimately what it’s all about. Here’s what one expert has to say:
We look for humor in a person because we want them to feel good by being with us and we want them to feel good about themselves in their decisions. We also want ourselves to feel good and to relax and have fun and a great time. Therefore when we date someone, humor is a must if we are going to ever reach a level of relaxation in the company of that person. Laughter and humor is about creating a mental connection and understanding about the world around us. It is a demonstration of a commonly accepted set of beliefs between us and it allows a demonstration of a level of understanding quickly not known in almost any other form.
Having a good laugh with your partner is more than just a lark – it’s a centering technique. Couples relax with one another, they feel a deeper bond, they heal and heck, it’s just plain fun!
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