Dr Marty’s Advice on Relationships
Saving a relationship is not enough if you don’t try to make it work. There are times when couples approach a relationship counselor when their marriage or relationship is on the verge of a break-up and never seek follow up advice to keep their relationship going smoothly. While they understand the importance of saving their relationship, they do not realize that they have to put some effort into it in order to prevent problems in future.
Dr. Marty Tashman, renowned marriage and family therapist, popularly known as Dr. Marty, says:
Some people say to me “Are you in favor of saving the marriage?” My answer to them is: “Yes, as long as it is not physically and emotionally destructive to either of you.” Relationships are one of the most important things in our lives and it’s not always easy to get along with so many difficult situations that arise.
During my 34 years of being a marriage counselor, I have learned that there are many things we can do to help couples with problems. I can teach you how to: improve communications, deal with emotional pain, and anger.
Dr. Tashman has over 30 years of experience in counseling people. He lists three essential steps in relationship counseling:
One – We get the problems, issues, and resentments out in the open and in a safe and productive place.
Two – We deal with the disappointments, resentments and anger.
I will also show you how to: rebuild your friendship and deal with different points of view.
Three – I will teach you how to build a new relationship, a relationship with: trust, understanding, kindness, fun, and love.
You can get in touch with Dr. Marty at yourmarriagecounselor.com.
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Whilst it does take some effort to build a healthy & fulfilling relationship both partners have to want the same things from the relationship. I think that far to many people get into relationship based purely on attraction, where they have little if anything in common with their partner, and where both partners ideas on the future of the relationship are to far apart. It doesn’ take much to build a great relationship, but both partners have to want to.