Marriage, Depression and Counseling
Marriage counseling teaches couples how to better communicate with one another but even using the techniques of a trained counselor can fall flat when compounded by the difficulties of untreated depression.
Depression in Marriage
Depression is a major source of divorce, simply because its signs, symptoms and reactions so closely mimic unhappiness, anger and resentment in a relationship. Withdrawal from a partner, a silent lack of communication and altered responses can all be misinterpreted by a partner as the responses and actions of someone who no longer loves them even when that is far from the truth.
Depression is a major cause of alienation in a marriage. It often leaves the other partner feeling hurt and wondering if, somehow, he or she caused this behavior. “Did I say something wrong, do they even love me anymore?” are common reactions to the sometimes puzzling behavior of a loved one battling depression.
Marriage, Depression and Counseling
When a couple enters into marriage counseling, the counselor will look at the signs and symptoms of behavioral patterns in the relationship and possibly recommend individual or medical treatment of a person showing signs of depression. At that point, the counselor will work with the couple to help them understand that depression is a disorder and isn’t caused by the other partner, and that adaptations need to be made within the couple’s dynamic to better understand the illness.
Depression is a serious illness and should be treated as such. A marriage counselor will help couples understand how this illness affects their marriage and work with a variety of solutions to heal.
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Relationships are hard and depression can sneak in there without you knowing. You need to realize when you get to that point and maybe you need to take a break to get yourself together.