Tips To Prevent Making Your Marriage Worse
The word ‘tips’ makes sense when added as a suffix to terms like ‘cooking’, ‘dental care’, and ‘beauty’. Can there be something called marriage tips? Well, yes, any small thing that can help improve your marriage can become a tip. Now, if you are in the habit of ruining your evenings and sulking in the mornings, blaming or cribbing about your spouse and your marriage, it is time you sit up and take action. And I am not asking you to visit the marriage counselor right away. Here are a few tips that will help you avoid unpleasant silence or bitter exchange of words.
If you are a man and your lady is a home-maker, don’t leave the house in the morning without a word. You can take a moment to thank her for the breakfast and bid her bye well. Now, irrespective of whether you are a man or a woman, don’t start the day on a sour note. Try to ensure you don’t spoil each other’s day by uttering something unpleasant.
Irrespective of your gender, get your spouse something when you get back home from work. A casket of fruits, the new edition of his favorite magazine, or any such thing will do. A gesture as small as this can also show that you care.
Control your reaction. When your spouse is going on and on about something he/she is unhappy with, don’t jump in and make a smart, sarcastic remark. You can save your sarcasm for outsmarting your colleagues. At home, just control your anger. And doing so won’t make you look weak. Instead, it will calm your spouse down and he/she may realize his/her mistake. However, don’t expect an immediate apology. You are likely to get it a few days later either verbally or in gestures.
Don’t hold back when you like something he/she did. Even if it was something he/she made for breakfast or the way he/she spoke to your sister. Express your gratitude and love at once. It’s the anger you have to hold back, not the love.
Try these tips even if they seem trivial. However, when they become useless, seek counseling.
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I am desperate and cant afford counsellors.
I met this gal online 7 months ago and we had really good relationship. 2 months ago, I found she was cheating on me all this time and lying right and left. We discussed about this and decided to give ourselves one more chance, she has been very nice and very honest. I know she is not a bad person and I know she is not cheating on me any more. But I am recating very hot and cold. I really love this gal and do what ever I can do to make her happy but some times I get really bitter and say really annoying, stupid stuff to her and cuased both of us pains. Easiest way would for us to move on but I cant seem to. I really love this gal and want my realtionship to work with her. Some times I just think what she was doung in first 5 mins, I get really mean and bitter and say stupid stuff. Please help me, how can I get rid of bad memories, one moment I am super nice and other moment, I am cold and brutal to her. Please help, I am depserate
Good point on starting the day off right. I believe that is a key to a happy marriage. Words of encouragement and affirmnation can make difference at the beginning of the day.
Nice tips to lead a happy married life.Also,if not able to work out a solution to the problem,best way is to forget about it and go on with new day harmoniously.Anyone must give up the control over the worse situation.